(This is a copy {slightly edited} of what I wrote in response to a question on The "SO of the DM" syndrome. )I am the GM, my husband plays an elvish druid called
calair, whose posts can be found on
shinyshinyelves.
He is an excellent tactician. Brilliant. Which is a total and royal PAIN. Because I do not play favourites (considering the game also has my son
da_norvegicus, his father, and some close friends). But Calair is by far the best, the longest-lived and the most powerful character.
I have been accused by a player of playing favourites with this character, but it's more the player's abilities outwitting my usual tactics. It even got to the point where when a (finally) well-laid trap (with a few mistakes on my part in the playing) by my NPC enemies resulted in serious injury to Calair, my husband accused me of railroading.
I looked at the discarded plot-ideas, town plans and setups that I had had to throw aside as the characters (as all good characters should) had made their own way in their own manner and at their own speed over my country. I considered the number of times I had had to completely wing a game, making up everything as I go, because of the party doing something completely over the top. I invoked the name of a now-legendary kobold NPC whose existance was supposed to be as cannon-fodder in our earliest days. And I glared at my husband:
"The countryside you play in is littered with the bodies of the surveyors of any railroad I attempt to build, thank.you.very.much."