Yeah, I do this for the fun of it...
Sep. 10th, 2004 03:15 amHow the hell is one supposed to be angry properly? I tend to simmer for ages, and then explode - with the usual and expected debris and blast radius. I've tried for years to deal with this in the various anger-management ways, (bring the problem up before it becomes a problem, explain how something is making you feel, use specifics not generalities) but every now and then someone or something still gets me totally pissed off.
( Thoughts on anger )
Which leads to the second query. Which is better - leaving replies to email for 24 hours because one might think again about them, but as a result not sending them and leaving feelings unexpressed, or being totally honest about being angry but at the same time possibly fuelling an escalation?
( Thoughts on anger )
Which leads to the second query. Which is better - leaving replies to email for 24 hours because one might think again about them, but as a result not sending them and leaving feelings unexpressed, or being totally honest about being angry but at the same time possibly fuelling an escalation?